Sex Talk with Your Kids 2023

[1] Foundational Module–3 hours

1.  Preparation to Talk   为有效地沟通做准备

  • Introduction  简介
  • Why we don’t talk about sex 为什么我们不谈性?
  • Who’s talking to our kids? 谁在对我们的孩子说话?
  • Problem faced by parents 父母所面对的问题
  • Guidelines for Answering Sexuality Questions 回答有关性的问题的指导原则
  • 3 Key Components of Sexual Communication 关于性问题沟通所需的三个关键元素
  • Case Study 1—Boy’s Boast 案例研究1-男孩的夸耀
  • What to Communicate 沟通什么
  • Goal of Sex Education 性教育的目标
  • Our Strategy 我们的策略
  • Home Sex Ed 家庭性教育
  • Case Study 2—Condoms 案例研究2-避孕套

2. Marriage & Sex 婚姻与性

  • Sacredness of Marriage 婚姻的神圣
  • Four Loves 四种爱
  • Sex & Reproduction  性与生殖
  • Case Study 3—Sex Yak! 案例研究 3-性,咦?!

 

[2] Topical Session 2–3 hours

3. Bad Sex Education 不良性教育

  • Alfred Kinsey—father of sexual revolution   阿尔弗雷德.金赛-性革命之父
  • 21 Things SIECUS Wants Your 5-Year-Old To Know美国性信息和教育委员会想要让您5岁小孩知道的21件事
  • Inappropriate Sex Education

4. Nakedness & Shame 赤裸裸和羞耻

  • Why be ashamed of the human body? 为什么会对人的身体有羞耻感?
  • How Imagination Works 想象力是如何工作的?
  • Parental Purity 父母的纯洁
  • Case Study 4—Short Shorts案例研究4- 短裤
  • Nakedness 裸露
  • Sense of Privacy

5. Direct & Indirect Method

  • Child’s Developmental Tasks 孩子发展的任务
  • First Stage Sex Ed第一阶段性教育
  • Morally Neutral Fact File
  • Three Stages of Communication
    • Information Stage 信息的阶段
    • Curious Stage 好奇的阶段
    • Comparative Stage 比较的阶段

 

[3] Topical Session 3–3 hours

6. First Stage Sex Education  第一阶段性教育

  • Primary Parenting Tasks 主要的育儿任务
  • Children Sex Play儿童性游戏
  • When to Communicate 何时沟通
  • How to Communicate 如何沟通
  • Relational Dimension 关系的维度
  • Personal Dimension 个人的维度
  • Spiritual Dimension 灵命的维度
  • Case Study 5—Why Boys Stand   案例研究5-为什么男生站着小便

7. Self Touch  自我触摸

  • Characteristics of Lower Primary 7-9 Years old
  • Child’s Developmental Tasks孩子发展的任务
  • Primary Parenting Tasks主要的育儿任务
  • Physical Dimension 生理的角度
  • Case Study 6—Self Touching案例研究6-自我抚摸
  • Emotional Dimension 情感层面
  • Personal Dimension个人的维度
  • Teaching About Privacy 教导隐私
  • Sexual Boundaries
  • Spiritual Dimension灵命的维度

 

[4] Topical Session 4–3 hours

8. Healthy Sexuality & Wet Dreams

  • Puberty–Child’s Developmental Tasks 孩子发展的任务
  • Puberty–Primary Parenting Tasks 主要的育儿任
  • 3 Dimensions of Healthy Sexuality 健康的性的三个维度
    • Physical Dimension [Eros]
    • Relational Dimension [Philia]
    • Spiritual Dimension [Agape]
  • How to Model Philia Love
  • Awareness
  • Case Study 7—Bra Tease 案例研究7—关于胸罩的嘲笑
  • Preparing to Procreate
  • Wet Dreams 梦遗
  • Not Comfortable About Own Sexuality

9. Friendship and Peer Pressure 友谊和同伴压力

  • Phileo—Friendship or Brotherly Love
  • What do You Look for in a Friend?
  • 4 Predictors of Sexual Experimentation 对于青少年性试验的4个预测因素
  • Attraction to Opposite Sex
  • Case Study 8—Catch in the Act案例研究8—正在做事时被发现
  • Suggested House Rules
  • Personal Identity–Peer Pressure
  • What To Say–10 Truth Statements
  • Finding Like Minded Peers 寻找同样想法的同伴
  • Spiritual Dimension 灵命的维度

 

[5] Topical Session 5–3 hours

10. Pornography 色情

  • Teen’s Developmental Tasks 发展的任务
  • Primary Parenting Tasks 主要的育儿任务
  • Emotional Dimension 情感层面
  • What is Pornography 什么是色情
  • Learn the Basics
  • 5 Ways Pornography Hurt Kids
  • What is the danger of girls dressing sexy?
  • Teach Your Kids “I have two brains!”
  • Sources of Pornography
  • How to tackle Pronography
  • Impact of Pornography on Teens’ social development
  • Why do Teens view porn?
  • Myths taught by porn
  • Truths to counter the myths
  • Which Simple Words to Keep Kids Safer?
  • Case Study 9–Poking Stick
  • 3 Straight Forward Ways to Define Pornography for Kids
  • Case Study 10–Cuties
  • Recent Sex Related News in Singapore

11. Gen Z 

  • Gen Z Defined
  • Physical Attractiveness
  • Common Behavioural Issues
  • 4 Areas of Consciousness–Physical IQ, Relational IQ, Self IQ, Knowledge & Facts IQ
  • Basic Issues Parents Need to Be Prepared to Answer
    • The Act of Marriage
    • Frequency
    • Orgasm
    • Sexual Dysfunction
    • Birth Control
    • Sexually Transmitted Infection
    • Abortion 堕胎
  • Emotional Dimension–Self IQ
    • Depression 抑郁
  • Relational Dimension–Relational IQ
  • Sexual Purity
  • Dating vs Courtship 约会与试验
  • Rules for Dating 约会原则
  • Community

[6] Topical Session 6–3 hours

12. Gen Z Digital Natives

  • Digital Parenting
  • DQ Institute
  • Digital Quotient
  • Framework for Digital Literacy, Skills and Readiness
  • 3 Levels of DQ Maturity
  • 24 DQ Competencies
  • 3 Components of Competency
  • ICT by Age Group
    • Infant & Toddler
    • Preschool
    • Primary School
  • ICT Usage–Key Points
  • Is My Child Ready for a Smartphone?
  • 5 Ways Technologies Impact Teens Sexuality and Increase Bullying
    1. Sexualized Content is Rampant Online
    2. Apps & the Internet Makes it Easier for Teens to Hook Up
    3. Apps & the Internet Makes it Easier for Predators Too
    4. Kids Engage in Sexting at Alarming Rates
    5. Kids Participate in Slut-Shaming & Other Types of Sexual Bullying
  • IGeneration–Smartphones: The New Teen Mental Health Crisis
  • Sexting & Cyberbullying Apps
  • Legal Aspects of Sexting
  • Why Teens Engage in Sexting
  • Facts on Online Dating
  • 9 Ways to Respond to Cyberbullying
  • What Can Parents Do?

13. Same Sex Attraction (SSA)

  • Same Sex Attraction 同性恋
  • Reasons why SSA is a sin
  • Facts on SSA
  • Case Study 11—Daughter’s Friend Kevin
  • How to Talk to Your Kids about SSA
  • Responding to SSA in our Children
    • Do not beat yourself up
    • What to you want?
    • What to do
    • Common reasons that produce deep struggles
    • Navigating Grief and Loss
  • Spiritual Dimension 灵命的维度
    • What Work & What Don’t Work
    • Divorced Parents
  • Closing Encouragement

Cycle 1



Start Date:
2023-08-05

End Date:
2023-09-23

Registration Closing Date:
2023-08-05

Time:
Sat 2.30-5.30pm Aug 5, 12, 19, 26, break Sep 16, 23

Venue:
Online via Zoom Cloud Meeting
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Price:
$350 per family $330 per individual

Contact Person:
Priscilla Ng (9786 6288)

Language:
English